Dear Kid,
~ Love
First of all let me
tell you that I am eagerly waiting to
meet you. You might still be in diapers somewhere. Or, you would be enjoying
the diaper free days (just like my boy) and would be finding reasons to hit the
flush button in the bathroom. But soon
we'll meet and I'll get the pleasure of having a daughter-in-law. So, welcome to the family dear! You are going to
get a new mother, may not be as perfect as yours, but definitely a caring one! This
may be too early to talk to you but darling time passes in blinks and I want to be prepared for your wedding with my son.
I promise that I would give you the best man of your life. For this, I'll put my best efforts to help my son in finding you. I'll
make sure that he understands the meaning of "being a Husband" which
is one of the two most important titles a man carries in his life. Other is of
course "Father". He will surely know that he has to carry two biggest
responsibilities of his life, as his father is doing commendable, one being a
husband and other being a father!
Dear, I assure you that from your first meet; you'll find
him as a courteous and respectful man. A man, who will never violate the grace
and dignity of a woman. He will be a strong and humble life partner for you. He
will not push and prob you into work if you first and foremost want to focus on
your kids. If you want to work, he'll be happy to share responsibilities of
home and kids.
He will adjust himself in
your family and will grow to love them. He will clearly see that your parents have
raised you with full hearts, and be profoundly grateful for them. He will be a
fast friend to your siblings and a support to your parents. He will look
forward to welcoming them as often as he
can. He will laugh and cry with them all your married life.
He will know that belief matters a lot in relationships when
faith between you both is under attack. He may want to be head of the home for
financial matters but he will value your suggestions. He will surely understand
that family is not an important thing, it’s everything. He will try to shadow all sorrows and bad
days with giving you reasons to smile always.
He may have flaws. He will get angry and frustrated, at times, in saying and doing
things. Please, please forgive him and work it out. You will all be the
stronger for it. I have learned from my
life experiences that in front of love and humor any anger can melt down. So
please use your love whenever you find friction between you both. I’ll make
sure to teach the same thing to my boy as well.
More than anything else, my son will love you with everything
in him. You will be the most wonderful woman in his life. You will be his best friend, the best decision he ever made. I know after you both get married,
he will face conflict in balancing my and your wishes. But please remember that
I am his mother and he’ll be little biased towards me. Trust me I'll love you equally but I would always know my son better than you. Your job will be to
support him and get your wishes fulfilled without putting him in any battle of
preference.
Darling, It is Mother’s day today. I know as I am a doting
mother, your mother will also be a devoted woman. She must be dreaming about
your future and married life. Please convey my wishes to her for this very day
and say her thank you that she is doing the greatest thing of her life with
mothering you. I hope she would be happy to know that I am preparing her future
son-in-law.
Wherever you are my future daughter-in-law, I hope you enjoy
the rest of your childhood. When you are both ready, I will be more than happy
to offer my son to you, knowing that he will do everything he can to take care
of you. I wish that you’ll take care of
him, too. All I want is to see him happy with you!
~ Love
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